I tend to receive requests from home owners who have one of these four challenges:
1. They're overwhelmed with clutter and don't enjoy their home because it frustrates them constantly.
2., They hurriedly chose paint colours and furnishings because they needed something quickly or were overwhelmed with the choices and just picked something to be done with it, and now don't enjoy their home because it always feels "off".
3. They renovated a space but have run out of steam or just don't know how to finish it and pull it all together, so don't use and enjoy their space.
4. They purchased trendy furniture and replicated swoon-worth rooms straight from a magazine, but don't enjoy their home because it feels cold and impractical.
Does this sound familiar? It's so easy to become paralyzed with the many decisions and choices available to make our homes beautiful. If you spend any time at all on Pinterest or Houzz you've experienced the overwhelm of gorgeous on-trend wall tiles, floor patterns, headboards, sinks, sectionals, and on and on and on. These details certainly make for a beautiful space, but to make a happy home they need to come together in a way that works for how you want to live, work and feel in your home.
I believe a home should be your personal sanctuary and enable meaningful living.
By meaningful living I mean simplifying life to be able to enjoy the experiences and people that make it wonderful: family time, entertaining, working and creating, or quiet time in a favourite chair, whatever makes you happy.
And so the secret to designing the kind of beautiful home that makes you happy is making it be a reflection of you and your needs.
Home should be personalized with things you love (and only those you love), that tell your story, that inspire you, and that refresh your soul. These may include photos, mementos, favourite colours and patterns, artwork that you love, tools that you use, books that make you want to curl up and read the day away. Those kitchen gadgets you picked up on sale but that you never use because you hate cooking, and the painting you're not crazy about but that you hung anyway because it goes with the paint colour in your living room - these are things that will not elicit happiness at home.
A happy home should also contain the kinds of spaces and furnishings that practically suit your needs. If a Netflix binge is your favourite way to de-stress then a cozy entertainment area with comfy seating is a must. You may desire a trendy and beautiful sitting room, but if it's not used then how is it making you happy? If a bright and inviting home office area will encourage creativity, then turn the barely-used guest room into your own little studio (like I did), filled with light, your favourite colours and a chair and workspace that beckons each morning.
Blending personal, beautiful and functional items and spaces into your roost in a way that fits the home's bones (ie. the architecture and permanent elements you may not be able to change like kitchen cabinets and countertops) and that's stylish and graceful can be tricky. It's definitely worth investing a little time and/or money into getting professional help, because now more than ever in this fast-paced world we need homes that wrap around us and make us feel great.
Think about hiring a local designer to help you, or take advantage of the online coaching resources I offer to learn how to slow down and create a home that's beautiful, functional, and makes you really, really happy. Your investment will pay off in time and money not spent over and over again to get your space feeling "right."
If you're not quite ready for personalized coaching, first check out these 10 actionable steps to creating a beautiful and meaningful home. They're ready for you to download in an easy PDF - just click the image below.
I truly believe that a happy home leads to a happy life. I hope that knowing this "secret" gets you thinking about simple ways you can refresh your home to make it more beautiful and meaningful.